MY CHILDREN, MY NATION BUILDERS

Runner-up of the SAF50 Story Contest, Mr Michael Sim, 51, writes about how he encouraged his children to live out the military dream he had been unable to fulfil.

Since young, I was taught the need to build up our national defence in order to guard our independence. My father was that unsung hero who inspired me in many ways.

He taught me that even when one is not in the Army, one can still contribute to nation-building in many other ways: being a responsible citizen; giving back to society as much as one possibly can; and being proud of who we are. Yes, "we, the citizens of Singapore!"

When my turn came to serve the country, I received crushing news from the Ministry of Defence - a letter instructing me to collect a "Certificate of Full Exemption".

My hopes were dashed but eventually I reminded myself of what my father had taught me. Hey, I can still contribute to our country in many other ways!

Since I couldn't personally serve in our defence, I had to "market" my ideas to my children. My eldest daughter Marilyn stepped up, as she, too, was passionate about the Republic of Singapore Navy (RSN).

"My children recognise the importance of our defence force and there is nothing more direct and concrete in giving back to society than to be part of it, serving to protect Singapore!"

Even though she was not of a sporty build and the training was "very tough" in her own words, she persevered to fill that void in me and ensure that I will have no regrets.

Through sheer determination, she is now serving proudly on board frigate RSS Intrepid.

My eldest son Marven also joined the RSN and is currently on board frigate RSS Supreme.

An experience he will never forget is being activated for the AirAsia search-and-locate operations in December 2014.

I have two more school-going kids and my younger son is convinced that he, too, wants to join both his sister and brother in the Navy.

We, as a family, can't express enough of our love for the country, particularly our Navy. We are proud of being Singaporeans and it brings me much joy and pride to have two of my four kids in the Navy Family.